Sunday, February 5, 2017

The Old And The Young

Another year in the books. Another year. Apparently I have reached a stage where I am not supposed to tell people about my age. To be honest, I really don't. I still tell people that I am 23 :).
I had this grand big post on my mind. The words were crystal clear in my head but just when I sat down to write I lost my rhythm. They say that- It happens.

Life has been great. I can't complain. There have been a few setbacks but what's life without them?
Professionally I am having the time of my life. The workaholic in me has resurfaced. I thought I didn't have it in me to work longer hours anymore but who knew. I am on a different high.

My cuban friend has his own coffee set up at his desk(Which is strictly prohibited at work because- Fire hazard!). The days when sky comes crashing down, the days it gets only crazier, the days even everything falls apart I go to his desk to steal a few moments of calm. He makes a nice cuppa joe using his nespresso coffee pods. I sit at his desk and we chit chat. Last week he said " Sometimes I really wish that I try all coffees before I die" This one sentence was enough to get me all philosophical. I am on a trip since then. Yes, I am scared of not meeting my milestones but really who isn't? We all have aspirations and plans and then there is a fear of not meeting those goals. I am going through that at the moment. I know its a phase and will be over before I know it.

My birthday this year was different. No festivities. No midnight calls. No people wishing at work. No surprises. Very few phone calls. I was really okay with everything. Is this what growing up feels like?
For whats worth I did have my conversations and a few special gifts. MG got me some pretty white roses and my friend Kay got me home baked power bars :). And I guess those few phone calls were enough for me. I was surprisingly zen about everything and my cheerful positivity irritated me.

I have been pretty restless lately. Like my B'day Twin says - "Never the one to sit still".
Been struggling to maintain my fitness levels at the moment. I have had enough. I am at my best when I feel fit and so I have decided to kick it up a notch. I am all in. The feeling is familiar and it is a lot of hard work. I feel ready though. I just need to find a way to maintain my work-life and balance.

And just like that I decided to gift myself a race this weekend. It was in Packanack Lake with a mug of hot chocolate at the end. It was lovely and beautiful and couldn't have been any better.
Running made feel alright. It gave me the much needed time to connect with my thoughts.

And just like that I baked two birthday cakes today. I needed those birthday vibes. I guess I wasn't really satisfied the way my day had turned out. I am not much about birthday jazz but I still like my little show. Who doesn't?

I am still standing my ground, looking at a world with question marks, figuring out where I stand. Isn't that something?

The show must go on. Happy Birthday to me.
Ciao..
P.S: I did write a birthday post like every year. I tried really hard to refine it, shorten it, brighten it and I just couldn't. I need some more time to work on it and it get my rhythm back. Hopefully sometime this month


Thursday, January 19, 2017

Life's Been Good

I tried to maintain my streak but life happened..
I couldn't write continuously. I can really blame work for that but to be honest I didn't miss this blog much. I have been crazy busy and I like that. The financial year has ended and now is when my role comes in to picture. I enjoy this madness to the fullest. I love chaos. There is a different energy in this chaos. There is rhythm in numbers, calculations, formulas. Everybody around me is hyperactive and it drives me even more. I have worked (and have been working) with all guns blazing.
Data. Reports. Analysis. Spreadsheets. Reconciliation. I get to play my teeny tiny part on the big screen. How cool is that?

Most days I come back home exhausted but more determined than ever to do something useful and creative. I am very happy the way January has shaped up so far. Getting up early in the morning is still a challenge most days. I don't remember the last time I cooked on a weekday or turned on my oven. Sunday meal planning sessions have served me well so far. Really. I have been doodling. The two paper mache bowls made of junk mail paper, sitting and drying themselves out are a proof of my creative evenings. I finally managed to paint 3-4 canvasses using oil paints. I am doing well, most days.

I finally managed to break in to a nearby town's craft scene. I have my first Craft show coming up in February and I couldn't be happier. I am doing this with a friend and both of us are very excited.
There is one more show in the pipeline and I don't want to jinx it by writing about it here.

And I finally registered for NYC Marathon. Yes all 26.2 miles. I have been very vocal about my inability to run 26 miles. I talked to my running buddy AC on my way back home last night and he planted this idea in my head. Again. After a pumped up 10k, new compression socks, chocolate shake later I decided to leave it to my kismet. I finally registered for it. The entry drawing for the New York City Marathon will take place on March 2, 2017. Accepted runners will be entered into the race. Yes, just like that I am going to let destiny decide this one for me. Let's see how it goes. I guess I will never be ready to run 26 miles. It is too intimidating but then you have to run it to see if it is for you or not.  Fingers crossed!

In Joe Walsh words -"Life's Been Good"
Ciao..

Sunday, January 8, 2017

Day6 & Day7 - With a Little Help From My Friends

I never thought that I would watch Friends ever again. I loved the show but then I was over it when it ended. Last week instead of reading books & articles I started watching Friends from the beginning and simply enjoyed it. I can't explain the trigger but I guess it was a very good decision. 

I used to keep telling people how I was over that phase of "Friends" and it was more for early twenties crowd. As soon as the Season -1 Episode -1 ended I immediately clicked on the 2nd episode. It had me the moment Monica Gellar said to Rachel Green: "Welcome to the real world! It sucks – you're going to love it."  I have to admit that I could relate to this show more this time around.
Yes, I am too embarrassed to admit it but that's the truth. I love how all characters have strong personalities. It is something that I never observed in my 20's. I focussed a little too much on the jokes back then. It is interesting to see how all these different characters bond and become each others support system. I am not here to review friends but something just resonated with me.

When I moved to the country my biggest concern was having a friend circle. I am a very easy person to get along with but lifelong friendships don't come easy to me. It takes me forever to accept all sides/ parts/ crazy personalities/ flaws and all that comes with having 
a friend. This is something that I am learning and working on. Also, I make friends but I can't have heart to heart conversations with all. It was easy when I was young and the world was full of possibilities. I had lovely, perfect, crazy, stupid, beautiful and brilliant friends who loved me and I loved them, and I spent my days and nights drifting amongst them, in my own world. As time passed, equations changed, life happened and eventually my coterie shrank. 
"Putting myself out there" became more and more difficult. I was having this conversation with my running buddy KT and she pointed out something interesting - "When we are young we indulge in communal living and that makes the whole process of making friends easier. As we grow older, circumstances change, obligations kick in and thats not really ideal for fostering new friendships". 

I was really nervous and wasn't sure what to expect when I moved here but some friends for eg:
Det-Res, Eby etc were there to sort me out when needed. I didn't get enough face time but that's all trivial. New friendships weren't that difficult too. It was easy. Saving spots for each other in tough classes. Having quiet coffees. Walking 2 kms to Farmers market together. Sharing recipes, life, views, thoughts. Saving few blueberry muffins from a large family batch. Cooking food and eating together (I have tried some weird combinations - Polish and Indian Food. Dominican and Indian food..) Leaving work early to check out sales. Faking a meeting in the conference room to actually shop online(shhhh!). Planning long runs together. Adjusting to each others pace during tough runs. Taking time out from a packed holiday for a few drinks with me.  Watching broadway shows together.
Yes, I have had some amazing experiences. It was like being in school all over again and I knew some were going to last longer when I got these:




And just like that it was also about meeting friends again and again after a lot of failed planning.

I met Hemant after 7 years last November. He has moved to the same friggin state. How awesome is that? We were always in touch but couldn't really meet each other. I posted that day on Instagram and this is exactly what I wrote: 

"And 7 years later we meet again!
The most amazing thing is how clouded those dates, timelines and events are in our heads. It doesn't matter. None of it. It feels good. Every time. There is beauty in saying hello again.."
Indeed.
Ciao..
1. I started writing this post last night but couldn't finish hence Day6 and Day 7 together
2. I really wanted the title to be "I'll be there for you" but couldn't let go of this one..







Day5: Radio hour

I started writing this post last night but was too exhausted. It was one cruel Friday. I was loaded with work and just dozed off in no time. I opened my blogger to write today and realized that this post never got published. 

Last year I discovered a different world of podcasts. I have been addicted since then. There is always something or the other playing in the background. The days when I am loaded with work I take my phone to the lounge and listen/ browse through my favorite podcasts to relax for a few minutes. I listen to podcasts every now and then. It is fun. I listen to quite a bit and I really wanted to share a few favorites here.

1. This American Life - I love this from the bottom of my heart. It is an old weekly radio program which is available as podcast. The whole show has a theme and which are explored a little by little in each segment. The stories are real mostly but sometimes there are memoirs and essays too. 
I love the show. It makes me feel that I am ingrained in American culture. Ira Glass has magic in his monotonous and slightly nasal voice. The stories are slightly offbeat and have a tendency to take you through a real emotional rollercoaster.  Some episodes are stronger than others like - This or This 

Needless to say that I love Mondays and I look forward to Mondays. On Mondays, the new podcast of This American Life is available for download.


2. Betty in the Sky with a Suitcase- It is easily my favorite travel show. It is about airline travel by real life Pan AM flight attendant Betty, who shares funny stories from pilots, passengers, crew, fellow flight attendants and everything in between. I really like the songs that are played sometimes during the episodes. The stories are quite refreshing and humorous. I enjoy her stories. They are just every day airport/ flight stories. They are mainly incidents that we experience and talk about when we travel. It is a breath of fresh air

3. Revisionist History by Malcolm Gladwell - Where do I even begin with this one? It is fairly new in the podcast world. He does what he is good at - He takes an idea and then reinterprets it. If you liked his book - The tipping point, the chances are that you will like this one

4. Game of Thrones -  This shouldn't really be surprising, right? I love their show. They pick one episode and then dissect events, dialogues, characters, possible outcomes etc..
It is my fantasy hour. I love GoT talk and their analysis. They even discuss the book chapters. With so many interweaving storylines there is always too much to discuss. 

5. New Yorker Fiction - Great and accomplished writers read their favorite stories by other writers. Isn't that cool? I never thought that I would be the one to like audiobooks but I am getting the hang of it. It is my own Lala land where I just lose myself. It is amazing how one writer owns someone else's work and then presents it with full conviction. Isn't that something?

There are many more that I listen to and I guess I should do a pat-2 post for them.
Let me know if you decide to give these a shot.
Ciao

Thursday, January 5, 2017

Day4 - SOTN

It was a hectic day at work today. The whole day was spent at looking and analyzing the data.
I just needed to tune out. I love what I do but today was not my day. I wasn't in my element today. My mood was just like the weather today - grey and dull.
I came back home and wanted to sleep. Somehow my mind convinced my body that it wasn't a great idea. I changed in to my workout gear and decided to workout. That's the reason why I love having a home gym. I don't have to step out when the wind is blowing at 30km/hr ( Yes, it is bonkers today).
It is not perfect but I am working on it. Working out at home has its own perks and I am trying to make the most of it.

4.5 miles later I was still not feeling it. Last Sunday I did my meal prep for this week and it was mainly Indian food. I guess this wintry, gloomy, rainy, dull and grey weather needed it. After a hearty meal I played some music. Yes, that's my therapy. That's exactly what I should have done at 1830 hrs.

Some songs are just for you. They manage to touch that nerve when everything else fails. They get you going on dull days. I guess it was a coke studio kinda day. I love coke studio a lot. Sometimes I just put it on endlessly. It is amazing how it brings musicians from different walks of life on the same platform. I have to admit that I love Coke Studio Pakistan more. What I absolutely adore, appreciate and love is how music lovers from two different countries come together in the comments section and appreciate music.

Before I bore you with my same run-of-the-mill music talk, let me take a leaf out of my friend's book and declare this as the SOTN from my huge playlist:



Ciao..